So confused??? Need advice Please!!

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Registered: 11-28-2007
So confused??? Need advice Please!!
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Wed, 11-28-2007 - 1:53pm

I am so confused right now.

BrusedNotBroken
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Registered: 09-12-2007
Wed, 11-28-2007 - 4:20pm
When he saw all his stuff packed up, he jumped to the conclusion that you couldn't wait to be done with him.

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Registered: 11-28-2007
Wed, 11-28-2007 - 4:31pm
So your saying I hurt him. Thats why he is not talking to me after that? Well thats what he gets for not talking to me before all that. I was trying to make it work.I wanted it to.
BrusedNotBroken
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Registered: 02-05-2007
Wed, 11-28-2007 - 4:34pm

Welcome to the board brusednotbroken,


I'd go one further.... not only did he jump to the conclusion that you couldn't wait to be done with him, he reacted from there, you reacted and it esculated into more than you wanted it to be, seemingly based on a misunderstanding.

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Registered: 11-28-2007
Wed, 11-28-2007 - 4:43pm
It doesn't make sense because I told him the night before that he needed to bring my key and things and he needed to come get his things. So he knew I was done. I told him I was giving him what he wanted. So it was set from there. Still does not make sense. And as selfish as he is. He is not going to leave his furniture like that.
BrusedNotBroken
BrusedNotBroken
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Registered: 02-05-2007
Wed, 11-28-2007 - 4:53pm

::Well thats what he gets for not talking to me before all that.


As long as you are *reactive* to what other people do or don't you will be at the mercy of their behavior, actions, choices and decisions.


::It doesn't make sense because I told him the night before that he needed to bring my key and things and he needed to come get his things.


Picking up his stuff, giving your key back, might have been to open communication with you.

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Registered: 11-28-2007
Wed, 11-28-2007 - 5:58pm
You are so right and so honest. I just felt there was something that was wrong. No sex for a month, no response to my messages when I try to tease him. Not inviting me to his family house for thanksgiving. And always saying sorry for stuff when
BrusedNotBroken
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Registered: 02-05-2007
Wed, 11-28-2007 - 7:52pm

He could have been seeing someone else.