SO CONFUSED!!!HELP
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| Fri, 05-26-2006 - 12:21pm |
How can someone go from telling you that they love you and then ask for some time off?
Then call you and tell you how much they miss you, thinks about you everyday, and miss the way you smell, and that he's wearing the shirt and sandals that you bought for him, to being so mean on the phone.
Then to not call you back or return any of your text messages? COuld someone lie about something like that? tell you they love you but didn't really mean it?
COuld someone fall out of love that easily? Want to be with you, but then just a few weeks of not seeing/talking to you they stop caring? Are guys that heartless, telling you they wanted to marry you, tell you're friends that they are not going to return the ring they bought?
How can guys be so heartless and cruel? i'm so hurt and lost and confused!!

His way of moving on? then why does he keep telling me that in future we might have soemthing? Tell me he loves me, still in love with me, and he misses and think about me everyday?
He is so confusing if he really wanted to just end things then why doesn't he just come out and say it, i've asked him over and over before to just let me know so i don't hold on to anymore hope.
I just want to know the truth, i don't know what i need to do? getting over him is so hard when he tells me all these things. he said he was going to call at the beginning of the month so we can talk! i don't know what to expect, just that i know he told me we weren't getting back together already. So what do we need to talk about?
Can he really be that cruel to tell me that i'm the only one he cares for out here and that he loves me and misses me everyday just to be nice? can a man be that heartless to the person he once loved? is there hope anymore?
Just stop in your tracks right there - you are far better off without this -shall i say - jerk! If he treats yuo like this now when he is supposed to be courting you how do you think he really would treat youif he married you??! when he is famililiar with you!Just think about it!He sounds totally self centered and selfish to me! Younare a wondeful person, individually made and loved by God.You deserve so much more than this.Pray for the Lord to bring you the partner he would chose for you, and prepare your heart for this special partner, protecting it from all those that would in some way harm you by their callous insensitive behaviour.Draw up for yourself a list of ten qualities you absolutely must have in a partner, and chose these carefully. This will help in your discernment to see if a man really is a suitable match for you. After all marriage is meant to last a lfe time. Tnose flutters of racing heart and dizziness you feel whenever you see him are fleeting and are not real love . they are a deception for the real thing. Those emotions will turn to dust in the real world.if a man treats you with respect and honorably - then you are on to something- if he doesn't he just needs to hit the road!It sounds very much to me as if you lack in your own self esteem.You can not rely on others opinions of you and treatment of you to feel good about yourself. First you must make yourself feel good about you. This may take some serious work - but it is worth it! When you feel valuable and confident in your self you will not tolerate treatment like this!