So hurt over breakup with fiance'
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So hurt over breakup with fiance'
| Tue, 03-06-2007 - 2:25pm |
I kicked my fiance' out of my house on Friday b/c over the past month or so he has had no respect for me & everytime I went to him about my needs or wants he would flip out, call me horribel names (the C word, tell me I was ugly & then two weeks ago he said he was going to punch me in the jaw & break my hands. So his family was here visiting over the past few weeks and I was so nice & hospitable to them but he didn't care. He never said thank you or anything. i cooked for them & made them feel very welcome & really bonded with his kids. He called his ex's cousin on Thursday 6 times thougout the day & when I asked him what he was calling this girl about he got very defensive & started yelling at me calling me names. The very next day I let his Dad use my car & he had to pick me up from work at lunch & when he showed up 45 minutes late to get me with an attitude sayign he was looking at apartments & put a down payment on one & that when his dad left he was going to screw me over at work & move out I lost it. He called me all kinds of names again, said he didn't love etc. I called the police & had them come over while he moved his things out. Then come to find out he never put a deposit on an apartment. HE said he was trying to hurt me. I didn't talk to him for a day & them he called saying he wanted to work things out so I was upset & I let him come over but then I found out he has been calling his ex girlfriend about 10 times a day sicne I threw him out. So today I told him I knew what he was doing & that I was done with him.
I feel so used & so hurt by this man. He was so nice to me & then this other personality came out the minute I would speak my mind or ask him a question he would flip out.
I know I did the right thing but I'm just really hurt b/c I trusted him. I found out he was calling his ex for 2 weeks behind my back about 3 months ago & he apoligize d& promised it wouldn't happen again.
I'm just really down today & I don't like feeling like this. My heart is broken.
I feel so used & so hurt by this man. He was so nice to me & then this other personality came out the minute I would speak my mind or ask him a question he would flip out.
I know I did the right thing but I'm just really hurt b/c I trusted him. I found out he was calling his ex for 2 weeks behind my back about 3 months ago & he apoligize d& promised it wouldn't happen again.
I'm just really down today & I don't like feeling like this. My heart is broken.

Hi think_alot and welcome to the board.
You did the RIGHT thing. This guy is abusive. He's also mean and a bully.