so hurt ....so confused

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Registered: 03-22-2006
so hurt ....so confused
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Mon, 03-27-2006 - 3:48pm
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Edited 3/29/2006 11:16 am ET by ycartwaves
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Registered: 03-26-2003
Mon, 03-27-2006 - 4:32pm

I'm so sorry...I don't blame you for being hurt and confused! What he's doing is really, really terrible.

I suspect, though, that his parents have something to do with it. The timing is just too coincidental.

There's nothing you can do, however, but begin working on accepting that no man who was right for you would DO something like this to you. It sounds like your incompatibilities may have made it difficult for you to be in a serious relationship going forward, anyway, so focusing on that might help also.

I'm sorry...I know it's not easy (I had someone disappear out of my life without a word back in November, so I can empathize).

Sheri

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Registered: 01-31-2006
Mon, 03-27-2006 - 4:51pm

hi ycartwaves

i dont know whats up with this guys. i think its very typical for them that oneday they just stop calling you for no reason and we dont know whatS going on leave us hanging.

well i mean you have the right to know whats going on between you guys. its doesnt mean he stop calling and leave it that way. atleast get some closure

AS FRIENDLY ADVISED CALL HIM. IF HE ANSWER DONT SOUND MAD AT ALL. BE NICE ASK HOWS EVERYTHING WITH HIM AND YOU ARE SO WORRIED THAT YOU HAVENT HAD CONTACT AT ALL. IF HE TOLD YOU THAT YOU BROKE UP WITH HIM THATS WHY HIS NOT CALLING YOU. JUST SAY SORRY AND DIDNT MEAN TO SAY THAT COZ YOU WERE MAD. TRY TO PUT YOUR EGO DOWN REMEMBER HE DIDNT DO ANYTHING BAD TO YOU AND SOMEHOW YOU OVER REACT...START THINKING AND IMAGINING STAFF. YOU END UP BREAKING UP WITH HIM WITHOUT KNOWING IF HIS OKAY OR WHAT.

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Registered: 03-22-2006
Tue, 03-28-2006 - 7:46am
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Edited 3/29/2006 11:17 am ET by ycartwaves