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So Sad
| Sun, 02-20-2005 - 7:48pm |
The love of my life not only broke off our engagement but completely left me. I was in love with this man since I was a child. We finally met up when I was in my 20's. We dated for yrs and last year he proposed to me. When he proposed I was ill...meaning too ill to return to work. I had my problems and he had his. I was too sick to support him emotionally as much as I would have liked or as much as he wanted. I began to feel more like myself just a few months ago and I tried to be there for him. Emotionally he shut down so I tried to do little things for him to make him feel better. Well just a few weeks ago he told me he no longer wanted to get married and he no longer wanted to be with me. We were supposed to get married this summer. I was left with cancelling the entire affair while he of course did nothing. I have a dress now that I no longer want to even look at. I did everything for this man...EVERYTHING, for years! Just one week after we broke up he met another woman and just one week after that she told him she loved him. When I confronted him about this he swore he never cheated on me and that he and this girl just hit it off. Am I supposed to believe that? I cannot believe that after all we had been through he just walked out on me. I can't believe that he was more concerned about how much attention he was getting during my illness than how I was doing. He supported me financially but not emotionally. Just knowing that he moved on so quickly is like another stab in the heart. Of course everyone says I'm better off but I feel so alone, so empty. I haven't been able to eat or sleep and I can't stop crying especially knowing how quickly he has moved on.
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| Sun, 02-20-2005 - 10:46pm |
I am so sorry to hear about what has happened to you. there is nothing i can say right now that is going to take the pain away. just know that what your ex is doing is putting a bandaid on a gaping wound and this unfortunately will be his demise in future relationship. it is necessary for the body to release the energy of the past to move on to a healthier place. it is neccesary for people to grieve in order to have closure. it is essential for people to learn from the past and from their mistakes and practice that new learned skill in the present to prepare them for their future relationships. jumping from one relationship to the next will not ever let this man rest and ultimately this girl will be in the same place as you are now. you are strong woman to overcome sickness and adversity and then to overcome heartache. it is these imprints of pain that with time, will evolve into marks of bravery and badges of strength. you have been through so much and survived to see another day and this is no different. rely on your friends and family for support and the people here and learn whatever you can from this experience. take the time to grieve and then when you have closed that door to this relationship a beautiful set of french doors will fly open and you will bask in radiance of someone who truly deserves to be with a woman of strength, perserverance and love. trust in yourself and know that this too shall pass.........
| Mon, 02-21-2005 - 9:28pm |
I'm so sorry to hear about your break-up.
