So sad and don't understand
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| Fri, 09-14-2007 - 9:20pm |
I need some thoughts because I am losing my mind over everything that has been going on...or shall I say the lack of things going on!!!
I have been dating this guy on and off for about a year and a half. I love him very much and was sure that he was in love with me. Lately he has been going through some weird things that I don't really know what to do with. We are very young he is 22 and I am 21, which I understand is too young to be in a serious serious relationship. I don't necessarily want a serious relationship right now because I am trying to get my life together, and he and I were on that agreement, but we also understood that even though we weren't "serious" boyfriend and girlfriend that he and I would not see anybody else. It's one of those types of deals.
About 2 months ago he had a girl that he met when he was in Europe (before I met him) come and visit because she was here traveling in the United States. I was all for her coming to visit him until I found out that she would be staying at his house for a week! He assured me that nothing would happen, nor did nothing happen when they met eachother, and that the only reason he was letting her stay at his house was because she had paid for him and his friend to go to Africa for

Welcome to the board aimzee,
Ok, reading your post to me it seems that at some point you went from being a girlfriend to a friends with benefits and/or a booty call (too close to call there).
::but how can somebody go back and forth like that on a day to day basis?
Because emotions and feelings are not cast in stone.