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some advice please
| Tue, 04-19-2005 - 5:08pm |
Hi- he's coming over tonight to get the rest of the things...we broke up in February, dated for a year and a half, incredible relationship- crazy about each other, and 2 1/2 months ago he snapped and said he wasn't ready for a serious relationship. i'm 28 and he's 26. I'm completely heart broken over this...I was sure he was it. He wants to continue to be friends, I'm just finding it very difficult. Anyone had any experiences on how to handle this best? yes ideally I want him to come back...but then again only if he really thought he was ready and made a huge mistake...I just want an idea on how to handle tonight....

I would change the location of your meet to a public place...or have a friend come over and be there with you, so that there's no temptation to get into a long, emotional talk or (heaven forbid) have ex sex.
Whatever you do, make it as short as possible. If he does come over, have the stuff ready to hand to him...don't even have him come in.
Sheri
muggsieboston...
Just a suggestion (from another man).....but keep things brief when he comes over this evening to pick up his stuff.