Stay With Boyfriend or Go Back to Ex?
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| Wed, 04-12-2006 - 11:51am |
I am really confused myself at this point. I have a boyfriend that is okay, not the most romantic person and lacks certain qualities. But at the same time we've been together for 5 years and he has been there for me. He used to be mean to me and I'm still working on trusting him but we've been living together for so long that I just got used to him. I started to leave him several times but he always convinces me to stay. Meanwhile I have an ex-boyfriend that swears that he loves me sooo much even though he was the one that let me go for another woman. He has all of the qualities that my current boyfriend has and I find myself constantly weighing the two of them trying to figure out what is best for me. But now if I leave my boyfriend for him, I don't even have a legitimate reason as far as I'm concerned. Is there a such thing as leaving a man for what seems like a better opportunity? I find myself upset sometimes, I go through the motions trying to figure out what to do! Should I leave my current boyfriend for the sweet promise of the ex boyfriend that swears that he loves me so much? Or should I stay with the man that stayed by my side for 5 years that lacks the same qualities that I enjoy in my ex? I am so confused. Please help!

hi sweetgalaxy
actually the answer to your question is in your POST ALREADY. YOU MENTION HE LET GO OF YOU COZ OF OTHER WOMAN. ARE YOU SURE HE WILL NEVER DO THE SAME AGAIN? WHAT GONNA HAPPEN IS HE WILL THINK YOU DO SAME THING WITH HIM COZ YOUR GOING TO CHOOSE HIM OVER YOUR 5YRS BF. SO WHAT GOES AROUND COME AROUND...SO THINK BEFORE YOU DO A BIG STEP..
GOOD LUCK
Carrie
Oh, I'm so happy for you!
This part:
but I can't even respect some of methods that he has tried to get me.
I've lived through that and can totally relate.
Carrie