Still dream of us...

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Registered: 11-19-2007
Still dream of us...
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Mon, 01-14-2008 - 6:19pm
My ex of 4+ years broke it off with me a couple of months ago and I feel like I am moving forward in my life except for one major problem.
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Registered: 11-05-2006
Mon, 01-14-2008 - 8:07pm

i feel the same way :/

but like you said, if it's meant to be, it will be. that doesn't mean that you can cut her out of your life forever and just expect her to come back to you. take time, focus on yourself...if after you're back to yourself you still miss her, then is the time to go back i guess...but i think it can only work if you would be able to move on if it didn't work out a second time. my friends are encouraging me to just "hook up" with other people to get over it, but i can't do that. don't diminish your morals or compromise who you are as a person just to get over her.

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Registered: 02-23-2005
Mon, 01-14-2008 - 8:52pm
RJ, i totally know what you mean. I was just browsing through pentyoffish.com and NONE of the men caught my eye. I had about as much "feeling" towards them as I did my brother. ewe! you know? it just feels icky, however, I will say that I have been through big breakups before, and i remember thinking the same thing. A lo and behold, one day you do see it's possible to be attracted in "that way" to other people. So just because i'm not feeling it now, I do know it's possible based on past experience.

 

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Registered: 02-05-2007
Mon, 01-14-2008 - 9:27pm

The most painful state of being is remembering the future, particularly one you can never have - Kierkegaard


Think about it.

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Registered: 11-19-2007
Tue, 01-15-2008 - 2:42pm

I guess I just dont understand how she could have told me all that time that I was the one for her and now there is nothing there.

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Registered: 02-05-2007
Tue, 01-15-2008 - 3:19pm

::I guess I just dont understand how she could have told me all that time that I was the one for her and now there is nothing there.


Self-fraud.

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Registered: 11-07-2007
Wed, 01-23-2008 - 2:04pm

I guess I just dont understand how she could have told me all that time that I was the one for her and now there is nothing there.