i just logged on to put up a similar post. i haven't seen my ex since late august or talked to him since september or contacted him since late october. & i'm waking up crying cuz i miss him.
i thought i'd be so over it by now since we only dated for 6 months, most of them casually.
well, it's nice that she returned your stuff anyway...or some of it...
i'm trying to figure out whether to call my ex & wish him happy birthday on dec 24. but i suspect he'll think i'm not over him yet & just using it as an excuse to talk to him.
It seems to me that kids played a big part in your break up. That is an issue she needs to address with her kids - this is going to come up with her even with any of her new relationships. Dont know if some of those issues with kids could have worked out with counseling, it is definitely an adjustment for all.
But looks like she didn't want to go there, couldn't deal with it and decided to end it.
sorry to hear that. :( man, that sucks.
i just logged on to put up a similar post. i haven't seen my ex since late august or talked to him since september or contacted him since late october. & i'm waking up crying cuz i miss him.
i thought i'd be so over it by now since we only dated for 6 months, most of them casually.
i just miss him so bad. ugh.
hugz. hope you feel better soon. hope i do too...
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Thanks!
well, it's nice that she returned your stuff anyway...or some of it...
i'm trying to figure out whether to call my ex & wish him happy birthday on dec 24. but i suspect he'll think i'm not over him yet & just using it as an excuse to talk to him.
i dunno. i'm not & i'm not.
what do you think?
-- I'm not a guy, but often wish I was...
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Sorry to hear you're still reeling, although I can completely understand.
Hi Rob,
I felt the same way too..the guy I was with - we worked
Hi Gal
Way back in February, she said she didn't love me anymore.
I would say, don't call him.
Hi Rob,
It seems to me that kids played a big part in your break up. That is an issue she needs to address with her kids - this is going to come up with her even with any of her new relationships. Dont know if some of those issues with kids could have worked out with counseling, it is definitely an adjustment for all.
But looks like she didn't want to go there, couldn't deal with it and decided to end it.
Yes, the kids were the deciding factor of why she ended it.