Still struggling with the breakup
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Still struggling with the breakup
| Tue, 04-18-2006 - 12:39pm |
Last I wrote I was recently dumped, blindsighted is more like it. A short recap, I'm 39 and was dating a man 46, divorced with 3 kids, for 3 months. Things were going great, or so I thought, then he came to me to say he's been feeling so guilty because he doesn't have time to put 100% into a relationship and that I deserve 100%. Between trying to get his business off the ground and trying to spend as much time with his kids as possible, he just doesn't have the time. It's been a month already and am still struggling with it.
I know this week his kids are on Vaca and are away. I'm dying to call him and ask if he wants to hang out. Someone please give me some advice.
I know this week his kids are on Vaca and are away. I'm dying to call him and ask if he wants to hang out. Someone please give me some advice.

hi shredder
dont do that control yourself to call him. if you think you deserved better than the way he treat you. so you have to move on...let me ask you something please answer this to yourself be honest......are you happy that you give yourself 100% of your time and him not even 1% of his time. is that what you really want in relationship?
actually to honest with you dear if he really love/care about you. he will do what ever it takes just to be with you. what i think if a person dont want to be with you at all they do all the bull sh..t excuses. TRY TO SEEK FOR THE TRUTH!!!
good luck dear