Still Unfinished Business After a Year and a Half
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|Wed, 04-24-2013 - 9:02pm|
I entded a very short, short relationship with a man who happened to be in recovery from alcecohol when i met him. Bottom line the times we spent together felt right and enjoyed each other companys immensely. We both had been going through our own bad times and found comfort in being with
each other. He wound up disappearing and not answering calls and he was isolatin himself.. i cared so much for him. He became very up and down naturally being a recovering aelcoholic and i may have been unrealistic and blinded with care and real care for him that it did make me expect things from him that he couldnt deliver like communicate normally. I wound up blowing up at him out of frustration and anger and fear because i cared for him and wanted to make something work with him. I wound up breaking up with him. I called his number almost on the oday we met about a year ago back in octo ber and hung up. a week goes by and i get a text and from him asking if i called him because he saw my number. We chatted back and forth and hte was there to respond via text.. also at thef oddest of hours like 10:30 at night. Anyhow he never enabled me to finally explain my end and not to expect anythig but not to go on feeling misunderstood over how i reacted at some things, He has refused to call me on the phone after i asked him to call me right after we were texting each other.
Now, his birthday was on the 19th and i sent him a happy bday text and in it said dont read into things,. i am happy all around and wish for him the same.. he replied thank you. i felt compelled to say that even though it is almost all true because i am the one initiating and dont want him to feel like i am chasing him.. but what compels me is that i FEEL he has misjudged me and i know in my heart that he cared for me and i him. The fact he replied i am not sure if he wasnt interested or cared at all why bother to respond.. i did ask him how are things and no reply.. maybe he was annoyed or not willing to open up honestly since i did say i was happy.. sometimes when you try too hard you overcomplicate and overcompensate and again misunderstood!!!