still wanna be with him, he doesnt
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still wanna be with him, he doesnt
| Mon, 09-24-2007 - 7:00pm |
Help... me and my boyfriend have been going out for like two years. About 5 months ago he broke it off with me because of a big fight, which later he says it was because our ralationship was just not working. When he broke it off he was with this girl. His reason for being with this girl was because i was out talking to guys the 2nd day after we broke up, so as what i can tell, it was just him finding someone to get over me. Three months later he wasnts to get back toghether. It was a wonderful feeling for the both of us because we missed eachother so much. This was good for the 1st three months, then we started school again and he broke up with me beacuse he just doesnt wanna be with me and he just is tired of it. I feel so hurt because getting back toghther made me love him so so much. Its so hard to get over this. I love him so much, but what do you do when you know the other person does not want it? we have been broken up since yesturday, he hasnt called or nothing. :(

The answer is actually both painful and simple.
If one person doesn't want to work on the relationship - there's no hope. There's no magic trick to make them come back or want to work on things or suddenly think it's all a mistake. So for all intents and purposes, this relationship is over.
Susanna
Welcome to the board lovely1012001,
Sorry for your pain.
Unfortunately yes.