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stop me from calling!
| Fri, 05-11-2007 - 8:50am |
please help me. i want to call him this morning and the urge is too great.
he left me a voicemail overnight saying "hi, it's me. i just wanted to call and see how your trip to FL was. it's late, you're probably sleeping, but if you get this call me or call me tomorrow."
his tone of voice sounded so shaky and forlorn, it tugged on my heartstrings. maybe i am just reading into it, thinking that there is more to than just what was said.
i could email him or call him right now at work, since we work in the same company, but i know it's wrong. i'm trying to remember that he said and did very hurtful things, but still, it is not working.
please enforce this so i don't backslide on my NC again!!!
thank you in advance!

"Please enforce this so i don't backslide on my NC again!!!"
Lots of people can tell you lots of things, but ultimately, it comes down to the choices you make for yourself.
Read through some of the posts titled like yours is... you will see the "no contact" issue is a very big one for many, and the best advice anyone gets is "no contact = no contact".
It can be a struggle, but it's a part of the process of moving on.
mblade2006
"Just because everything is different
Sandra posted something a while back about intentions. Think about your intention--what are you trying to do right now? If you're intention is to move forward, keep on moving girlfriend! Calling him or emailing him isn't moving forward; contacting him is staying stuck in the middle of it.
Something else to (maybe) think about--don't do anything right now. If never talking to him again is too much to think about, just think about not contacting him RIGHT NOW. Get through today, today, think about tomorrow, tomorrow, and handle next week, next week. Just a day at a time.