Struggling with NC...
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| Mon, 01-14-2008 - 7:16pm |
Hi there,
I just recently decided to intitiate NC with my ex, against my every desire to talk to him when I can. It's been nearly a week now, but my issue is that he's coming back to the country this coming Sunday and will be staying on my campus for a few days.
It just seems like no matter what I do I can't get rid of him! I boxed up everything that reminded me of him in my room/house, I deleted his emails, etc. However, he'll call from time to time and I cave - I just can't ignore the phone call. Then he goes and joins Facebook, which he refused to do the entire time we were dating, and sends me messages. Our mutual friends constantly ask me about him and/or talk about him. He is a great guy and everyone loves him, but I refuse to make people uncomfortable by telling them to stop talking about him in my presence. I'm the one who has had the most contact with him since he left the country a month ago, so naturally people ask me about him.
First he tells me that he doesn't think we should be together, then he says that he's not sure, he tells me that he still loves me, then he doesn't. I had to initiate NC because it was driving me crazy. I still love him but he's been messing with my head lately and I couldn't handle it.
I can't escape him! Help me get him out of my head!

Welcome to the board shimmerofheaven,
I have a feeling that when your feelings matter more to you than those of your friends, you will ask them to tone it down some or pass out his email/phone number so they can contact him directly.