Struggling with the weekends
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| Sun, 03-25-2007 - 10:25am |
The weekends are the hardest for me? Are they the same for anyone else? I try to fill my weekends with activities and friends but sometimes I just feel like laying in bed and crying. These are times when I miss hanging out with him going to dinner then going home to watch TV by ourselves. Now I hate the empty and lonely feelings I have when I wake up.
He hasn't called and I get so sad. I get sad knowing that he has moved on from me emotionally and doesn't care or need to talk to me anymore. He's not even that great of a guy so why do I miss him so much? Why do I care that he "hates" me? He said that I've pushed him away with all the fighting that happened since our break up. This is so typical of him to always blame me. He's blaming me for his negative feelings towards me just like he blamed me for "pushing" him to hit me.
See, not such a great guy so why is it that he hates me and I dont "hate" him?

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hey I understand your feelings my boyfriend of 2 months left me because he did not want to make time for me( big upset I hated him for it but sort of understood the hatred part was how he did it ... a text message) we later decided to become friends and he said the reason why he did not want me as a girlfriend was the fact I needed to much attention when seriously he was the one who always called and stuff like that(me need attention I think it went the other way). Ido miss the nights when we would lay on his bed and watch movies and I loved the way he smelled, I miss it soo much. I think its the fact that someone wanted us soo bad and then all of a sudded... like he got hit by lighting, he does not want us anymore and then decides to blame us for the reason of the breakup and we thought it was going well. I know you will find someone better just think of it this way if he acts like that he does not deserve you at all
hope you feel better
Shygirl243
Yes, keep up the work of no contact.
I'm in the same boat except I'm a guy and my girl dumped me. I try to keep busy but it's not easy, checking my email every minute or so, on the computer.
Then, when I am home, I check my email from my cell phone. Give me a break. Then I keep running into her outside of my home. Wouldn't you know, yesterday, I merge onto the highway, on the way home, and whose truck do I merge with? Her's of course. Of all the cars on the highway to merge with, and the different times we both leave work, it just happens to end up, we merge on the highway.
Weekends were spent always doing something with her, or one of her family members, like playing golf or a get together at one of the family members homes.
Now, it is just me and my daughter but I still find I think about her every minute of every day.
I have to go without any more contact at all and hope that I never see her out again.
Good luck and I hope things get better for you.
Rob
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