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Stuck in the past
| Thu, 04-20-2006 - 3:48pm |
Its been about a year and a half since my ex and I broke up. I have moved on to date others but i still cant get over him. He has moved on and married and with a kid. Im stuck here still sad over him and hating him. I really hate him and everytime i think about him i just get so mad and I wish i didnt. I hate him, his wife and my ex best friend. They all went behind my back and lied and said untrue things about me to alot of people about me. My problem is that i get mad when i think about him and it really bothers me. It is like he is running my life and i dont even talk to him at all. I just want to know how can i get over him and his wife and ex best friend. I dont want to hate him or anyone, i just wanna be happy and happy for him and i dont want to be angry when i think about them. how would i go about doing that?

hi amber
this only going to happen if u open your heart again with someone. you mention your dating some other guys right...BUT THE PROBLEM IS YOU DONT WANT TO LET GO OF YOUR PAST AND YOU DONT OPEN YOUR HEART. I KNOW ITS HARD ESP YOUR EXBESTFRIEND IS YOUR EXBFS WIFE NOW. OH WELL THATS WHY THEY SAY YOUR BEST FRIEND IS YOUR WORST ENEMY. ACTUALLY MY BEST FRIEND DID THAT TO ME ALSO. ACTUALLY THE GUY THAT I USED TO DATE. THEY END UP DATING TOO. WITHOUT ME KNOWING. ACTUALLY SHE TOLD ME AFTER THEY BROKE UP ALREADY....WEIRD RIGHT? WELL TOO BAD SOMEHOW AFTER 14YRS WITHOUT CONTACT WITH THIS GUY. WE START CONTACTING EACH OTHER AGAIN(WELL WITH THE HELP OF THE INTERNET).
I ASK HIM ABOUT THAT BUT DIDNT DENY IT. HE TOLD ME THEY JUST TALK OVER THE PHONE AND TEX'S. BUT DONT GO OUT AT ALL. I ASK WHY NOT. THE FUNNY THING IS HE TOLD ME THAT HER BREATH SMELL REALLY BAD AND HE COULD TAKE IT.. I GUESS THATS A KARMA FOR HER...I MEAN ISNT THAT EMBARRASSING.
ANYWAYS ONETHING I COULD TELL YOU OPEN YOUR HEART TO FALL IN LOVE AGAIN AND EVERYTHING WILL BE OKAY TRUST ME.
GOOD LUCK