On the subject of Karma and Revenge...

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Registered: 11-26-2005
On the subject of Karma and Revenge...
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Fri, 01-06-2006 - 4:33pm

I don't like to think about myself as someone who ever wishes badly for another person -- but after my ex dumped me (in a mean phone call) for another girl (the “perfect” girl) -- and realized two days later that he felt "nothing" for her and wanted to speak with me --- I really found myself believing in Karma.

Maybe it’s not the healthiest way to deal with the grief of a break-up, but I’ve found that thinking of him being alone forever is a really pleasant thought. Or eventually a bald (which he fears) and perverted old guy – who creeps out all the young girls. Etc…

Does any one else want to share any karma related to their ex --- or any little juicy revenge thoughts that help them get through their breakup?

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Registered: 12-14-2005
Fri, 01-06-2006 - 5:51pm

Well i would personally would like for his you know what to fall off :) I am he is so proud of it that he will send pictures to one of the girls he cheated with! And also that way he wont be trying to get girls pregnant at the same time!!!

Or what about the fact that he told me that he had cancer but didnt......now that will be real punishment for him!!! (but i dont know if will really wish that on him)

Or maybe he will fall in love with a girl (like madly in love with her) and she will cheat on him with 2 other guys and have serious relationship with all 3 of them.

Welll those are just some of the thoughts that run throug my head LOL!

E

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Registered: 12-02-2005
Fri, 01-06-2006 - 7:35pm
I agree with you goddess! I hope my ex starts messing with a girl thats gonna cheat on him or even give him a disease. That is messed up that your ex said he had cancer, how can someone lie about such a thing? And I thought my ex was bad! Maybe my ex will get a girl pregnant, that would sober him up. O.k. I feel better now. Thank you. But I think karma is going to play a key role in all of our ex's lives, and they will deserve every bit of it because they brought it on themselves.
thejaded_1
No NC for 7 weeks on Monday!!
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Fri, 01-06-2006 - 8:34pm

Oh yes, I am a believer in good and bad Karma!! I really don't have any good story per se, but I tell my SO all the time that his ex-wife has bad karma. She left him for someone else. Well, that was three years ago and she has been dumped at least 4 times since then. Whenever something not so great happens to her, I tell him it is just her bad karma at work. LOL. My ex-husband left me for greener pastures about 7 years ago and is now down to one friend and hasn't had a date in over a year. I actually think it is pretty sad -- but in the case of both of our exes, the one thing they have in common is a negative attitude and self-centeredness.
I believe that no one's karma will improve until they become a positive person and start thinking and acting outside of themselves! And let's face it, many of the exes around here, from what I have read, sound pretty selfcentered.

Lois

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Sat, 01-21-2006 - 3:13pm
Yes, I believe in Karma. Everything comes full circle and he will get what he deserves. Do whatever makes you feel better, even if it's temporary. Just in case Karma was on vacation that week, I posted his picture on a website with a profile telling his story. I'm going to send him the link one day. On New Years day, I found out my ex was cheating on me since the day we met a year and a half ago. I found pictures and letters from a girl he's been dating for the past four years. He broke up with her a few months after him and I met because she phoned the house one day and I answered. They continued to sleep together though and he was stringing her along until he made up his mind about whether he wanted to get back together. They were sleeping with each other for 14 of the 17 months I had known him. In September/October, a few months ago, we broke up for two weeks and he had gone back to her to propose marriage. She turned him down and he came back to me. I should have known better, but we are all too kind to see the evil in these men. After finding pictures, letters, cards, lingerie (ew!), and journal entries, I left him one night while he was sleeping. But not before packing up everything I had ever given him and leaving a Dear John letter that did not reveal a thing about how I found out, only to tell him what a loser he is. I also took down a phone number of this "other girl" of his and called her up to get the truth. That's how I came to be able to tell his story. I can't believe these people exist but I do believe in the spiritual laws. I trust they will all have their turn.
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Registered: 06-02-2005
Sun, 01-22-2006 - 4:36am
wow..is there a website specifically for cheaters???? I would to find that. The only decent story I have is back in HS (I am now 33)I had a boyfriend who I was CRAZY about! Long story short, he cheated on me and got Mono from the girl he cheated on me with...THANK GOD, he didnt give it to me. He also use to take the same bus as some of my HS friends ( I went to an all girl Catholic HS)...they would torment him and embarrass him on the bus.....it was great...I wonder where he is now....I bet he got 1 or 2 chicks knocked up and has a crappy life...at least that is what I hope!!!!!
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Registered: 01-03-2006
Mon, 01-23-2006 - 12:18am
Yep, there is such thing. It's a fairly new site and it probably doesn't get as much exposure as I'd like to think. But it IS out there and I got a kick out of it anyway. I'll also enjoy sending the link to my ex when there are more hits. I hope it's ok to post the site here, if not I guess i'll get reported. It's called Out My Ex dot com. It's a bit of a messy site but if you click on Enter Site or Player of the Month, you can browse all or by "Players" or "Hoochies". If you search by member, I'm called "toogoodforhim", you can read up on my ex. It's free to sign up right now. Amusing to read some of them. And if nothing else, it makes you feel a little better to out him if only to a few strangers. If you're lucky, someone who knows him will see it. I call it revenge therapy. Have fun. :)
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Registered: 06-02-2005
Mon, 01-23-2006 - 7:22am
Cool! I am going to check out the site....I hope I am not on there...LOL!!!