sudden contact after break up
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sudden contact after break up
| Mon, 08-27-2007 - 8:06pm |
I broke up with this guy about 5 weeks ago after dating him for about 2 months. He called me one time right after the break up and left a message but I didn't call him back. We had no contact for about 5weeks. On Saturday night, he texted me out of nowhere. He even said, ......if you were still with me. What's up with the sudden text??? I don't understand. Is he still interested? If he is, why didn't he try something earlier???

Mmmm, a Sat night text after nothing for 5 weeks...sounds like he might have been looking for a hook-up.
I would just ignore it and keep moving on.
Sheri
How did the breakup happen? How the relationship played out and how it fell apart might give me some insight so I can answer your question on that. The best one to ask why he texted you is him, though.
For what it's worth I don't automatically go to the hook-up theory, although the text may have been due to drinking and lowered defenses. People do things drunk they might not normally do when they're sober.
Good luck,
Welcome to the board callalilly00,
You broke up with him, so do you really care why he's texting?