I completely understand what you are going through, I'm there myself but only on day 8. My ex and I were together for 5 1/2 years but he decided that I'm just not the one after all he sees himself marrying. We had been talking about marriage lately (I always brought it up--maybe that was a sign) just general questions but he always said we have plenty of time, which I agree we do but he always would say why get married, everyone is miserable that he knows that is married, (his older brother went through a nasty divorce) he doesn't see himself married anytime soon, etc... So I believed that he really had a fear of that, just marriage itself and not of me.
One day we were talking on the phone and started arguing about some little issue and he just announced that he just thinks we should take time off and I should move out and go back home. I asked why he thought we needed it and thats when he said he just doesn't see us together...he doesn't see me as his wife and that he's not afraid of marriage but that was an excuse with me. Well I immediately called my friend and moved everything that day and cried and cried all last week. Now I'm just plain angry and pissed off and he's in the Caribbean with some friends which makes me sick to my stomach.
So i'm taking it day by day but I too will burst out in tears at the store or ask why didn't he see himself with me?!
I completely understand what you are going through, I'm there myself but only on day 8. My ex and I were together for 5 1/2 years but he decided that I'm just not the one after all he sees himself marrying. We had been talking about marriage lately (I always brought it up--maybe that was a sign) just general questions but he always said we have plenty of time, which I agree we do but he always would say why get married, everyone is miserable that he knows that is married, (his older brother went through a nasty divorce) he doesn't see himself married anytime soon, etc... So I believed that he really had a fear of that, just marriage itself and not of me.
One day we were talking on the phone and started arguing about some little issue and he just announced that he just thinks we should take time off and I should move out and go back home. I asked why he thought we needed it and thats when he said he just doesn't see us together...he doesn't see me as his wife and that he's not afraid of marriage but that was an excuse with me. Well I immediately called my friend and moved everything that day and cried and cried all last week. Now I'm just plain angry and pissed off and he's in the Caribbean with some friends which makes me sick to my stomach.
So i'm taking it day by day but I too will burst out in tears at the store or ask why didn't he see himself with me?!