taking a "break" on first love
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taking a "break" on first love
| Sat, 01-05-2008 - 9:21pm |
Hi everyone! I am new here and am looking for some advice on my situation with my long-term boyfriend. For some background, we are both 20 and we have been together for over two and a half years. We met in high school and we

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Hi Laur
My ex and I were also in an LDR about the same amount of time as you and almost the same distance!
Hey there
I think it's a healthy thing for the two of you to break up.
I will not call him....I will not call him...
Stay strong Laur...and even though my ex hurt me deeply, I also miss talking to him at the end of the day, having someone to hold, etc...all the things that you also miss.
buddy2008
I am not sure why others feel you shouldn't let your ex know how you feel.....for me, I wouldn't want him to know because then he will feel I am a fall back for when he wants to get back together. I have to beleive that if he thinks I have moved on, then he will address what he really wants. And maybe that includes me, or maybe he figures out he needs to move on. If he moves on, then I have lost nothing and I know it was meant to be that way.
I just wanted to comment that you sound much much better than when you first posted on this board. I am incredibly incredibly proud and happy about the amount of distance you've managed to push yourself into and I'm sure everyone here is too. Kudos
All the best
- There comes a point in your life when you realize who matters, who never did, who won't anymore, and who always will. So don't worry about people from your past - there's a reason they didn't make it into your future.
You are very strong.
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