taking off the pink shades...
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| Mon, 12-03-2012 - 7:41pm |
does anybody else know that feeling when you suddenly realize that maybe you were fooling yourself and that man was maybe not price charming? :(
i.e. that you can live without him and that you might have been wrong and that he is the only man on this planet? :(
it is happening to me and it hurts like hell.:(
it is like i am falling "out"of love.
and it hurts...
i just suddenly realized that i do not need my ex to survive, that i will lead a happy life regardless if he is in it or not, and that maybe there is another man that might be the father of my future children /future husband. - outch.. why does it hurt to think this?
i do not like that feeling.
for one year i was 100% sure he is the one.
now within 2 weeks something changed. he broke up and i wanted to keep fighting or something. but something changed inside me :(
the way he treated me changed my feelings :(
outch... i did not want to change :(
why does this hurt ?
I feel guilty because I wanted to keep loving him in the way i did, i wanted that to last forever. 3 weeks ago I thought I could not live without him. And today , in the mirror I see a whole new person…with much more self esteem… I am ok with being without him . and that scares me.
I miss loving him. I dont remember what it is like to miss him. :(
I can not "feel" him anymore. - i do not know how else to put it in words :(
Does that sound strange?
Shouldn’t I want him to call me and text him , why am I so cool and relaxed by myself? :(
can I simply loose those feelings? i do not get it. what is happening? :(
I am scared of myself:(…
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It's a shame that he turned out to not be the man you thought he was. But wouldn't you rather know about it than continue to be blinded from the truth? Why would you want to keep living with rose colored glasses?
If he is your ex, then this is a good thing. It means you are moving on. You need to "fall out of love" with him. I don't know why that would scare you - is this your first serious relationship/break up? Why would you want to remain in love with your ex?
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it's called "falling back in love with yourself". You have retrieved your self and that is always a good thing. Try not to lose her again in the future.
What happened to cause this? What was his crime?
I've always heard that it's a month for every year you've been together. In my own life experience, this seems to be the case. I've never pined behind any man twice as long as I'd been with him.
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