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Tell me what you guys think about this
| Sun, 12-04-2005 - 11:23am |
Hi! I've been on an on/off relationship with the same guy for 2 yrs now. I called it on/off coz we see each other probably once a month but talked on the phone every week, the reason was him being so busy w/ study, work and 2 kids. We've been through a lot of rough times, in the beginning of us being together - there was a girl trying to break us up, in the middle - the mother of his kids wants him back and she tried to break us up. After the incident with the mother of his kids, I felt like we were stronger, he talked to me a lot about marriage and having kids, i've always told him that i'm not ready for that coz I wanna be successful in my career then settle down when i'm established. Then everything was never mentioned again, the calls got lesser, seeing each other also became lesser, we even resorted to emailing each other. I emailed him about my feelings, that he doesn't have time for me anymore, he emailed back that he was really busy and it all came to a huge petty argument, I said if you don't want to see me then don't and his last reply was if that's the way you want things to be then that's the way they're gonna be. I haven't heard from him since then, I was trying to contact him to clear things up and maybe to find out where we are in this relationship. No answer at all, phone calls, emails. Then the other night a girl returned my call and she was very mean, she told me things like he's over you so get over it then I heard a guy laughing in the background and they even tried to kiss while I was listening on the other end. I was stunned, hurt, disrespected but I wouldn't stoop down to their level and say something stupid. In short, I was devastated, I couldn't sleep at all and all I could think about is why can't he be a man to tell me that its really over, there's already a girl and hurt me just like that. All i'm asking for is to let me know what's going on and if he doesn't want to be with me then i'll move on but he never said anything and now this. Are there guys who's really doesn't care about our emotions, leave you hanging and just figure it all by yourself. I just want to get this out of my chest.

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Great, it sounds like you have a good confidante! You're very wise to put off future relationships for now. Have a great day!
Laura
You are TOTALLY right. I can't imagine how he would have the balls to send that completely bogus email.
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