the test came...

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Registered: 08-22-2003
the test came...
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Thu, 02-07-2008 - 8:36pm

i know its stupid to post everytime i hear something or feel something, but its been helping me...


he texted me today "i miss you". i was strong and didn't text back. Its actually not so hard because I'm still hurting and so upset about my move to a city I dislike, and the fact we're actually broken up. It's just been a wreck of a week, and terribly sad for me.


I felt like texting back, "its not enough anymore"... but it would've been malicious and mean.

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Registered: 03-26-2003
Thu, 02-07-2008 - 8:41pm

Good for you for not responding.

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Fri, 02-08-2008 - 8:12am

I agree wholeheartedly with Sheri, if you want to meet people, meetup.org is a much better option for you at this point than any of the dating sites. They're based on interests, activities and hobbies. This way you can meet a mix of men and women, and have the luxury of meeting guys in a group environment first, get to know them as individuals instead of trying to force something that truly, the way you're sounding now will only serve to set you back.

Join a singles activities and meetup group, not a dating site.

Good luck,

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Fri, 02-08-2008 - 12:02pm

Good for you for being strong. If you know what you had with him isn't what you want, then you're doing yourself a big favor by cutting ties.