For those who have been following ..bozo

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Registered: 09-22-2004
For those who have been following ..bozo
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Fri, 03-24-2006 - 4:51pm

Hi to those of you who have been following my 3-4 long ordeal.....I sent a short email asking her if she moved truely moved on from our relationship or if she's still unsure I gotthis reply today (2 days later) We were together for 6-7 months........

""hi. i was so happy to hear from you. i miss you, our friendship, nights out and nights in. my son misses you.

This part has some family names that I edited out...........

i wouldn't do anything to your clothes . they are still in the drawer. i think i took on too much with us. you told me that you teach people how to treat you...and i taught you to treat me as a wife...i was feeling overwhelmed...i need to back up...be on my own for a while. could we change our relationship? be friends...companions....get out together once in a while..be there for eachother..? i don't know where it will go. "

Any thoughts?????

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Registered: 03-26-2003
Fri, 03-24-2006 - 5:09pm

Honestly? For me, this just confirms that what I posted to you the other day was correct.

If you're looking for a serious LTR, this isn't the woman for you. I mean, really, how do you have what she's proposing with someone you LOVE? (I don't think you do.)

Sheri

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Registered: 01-31-2006
Fri, 03-24-2006 - 6:20pm
i'm so sorry to say bozo..it seems to me that she just dont want you to get hurt thats why she sending you this email. I THINK SHE JUST WANT YOU AS A FRIEND...AND FOR "KARMA" SAKE SHE STILL TREAT YOU NICE...SO SHE WONT FEEL GUILTY OR ANYTHING!
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Registered: 09-22-2004
Sat, 03-25-2006 - 10:12am

I'm hearing you girls.......

Since the email, weve been spending hours talking. I dont know where it will lead either.

Speaking for myself, one can either play it safe, OR take chances in life/love.

Thank you all for listening and for all the excellent advice.

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Registered: 03-26-2003
Sat, 03-25-2006 - 1:39pm

Actually, I disagree...there is a middle ground between those two extremes. One can take chances, but only those that have a reasonably good probability of success (a calculated risk in other words), rather than taking chances that have a high risk of failure.

But I hope for your sake I've misread what she's been saying. Good luck and keep us posted!

Sheri