three relationships, same breakup

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Registered: 07-19-2006
three relationships, same breakup
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Wed, 07-19-2006 - 12:22am
My last three relationships all ended after eight months. At about the six month mark the guy started acting like he was losing interest and spent much less time with me. All three times I tried to deal with it, but at the 8 month mark would try to discuss it, at which point all three guys told me they just didn't have feelings for me. What gives? Why don't I matter to the guys I date? I just don't understand. This just happened again on Sunday. I tried to break up with him because I felt I was being treated poorly, and he confessed the feelings just weren't there.
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Registered: 03-26-2003
Wed, 07-19-2006 - 1:31am
So sorry to hear about your breakup. It sounds odd to me that your last three relationships ended for exactly the same reason at exactly the same point ... It's one of the most unusual situations I've ever heard about on this board. Could it be you're somehow recreating the same situation every time? How do the relationships begin? Could it be that you get in too hot and heavy too soon and they lose interest because they become overwhelmed? Could it be that you're picking guys who just aren't that into you from the beginning?