Tips on how to get him back
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Tips on how to get him back
| Thu, 09-30-2004 - 12:39pm |
My boyfriend who i was dating for almost a year broke up wtih me on sat. it is our one year anniversary this sat. i was going home for the weekend, and im not sure if i should try to see him or anything. he told me that our time was over but i dont think it is. i want to spend the rest of my life with him and i want to do anything to get him back. i wrote him a letter but he hasnt contacted me yet, and im not sure what i should do. i dont want him to be with anyone else but me, i cant imagine that. im going through so much pain i just need to get my life back and i need a way to get him back, if anyone can me with ways to get him back, please message me back as soon as possible.
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| Thu, 09-30-2004 - 12:47pm |
The way to get him back is to not want to....if he wants to come back he will do it on his own...men who come back because of guilt don't stay, you can't cry him back...and you can't beg him back...you will give up to much of yourself.....Unfortunately you will hear about NC- No contact and this will give you time to decided if you really want him back or if it denial or fear you feel.....Maybe he needs to realize what he is losing before he will want to come back.. not what you want to hear i know....but the only person you can control is you
| Thu, 09-30-2004 - 1:10pm |
I agree with rosesrred, you shouldn't act like you need him, things like that just get to their heads and make them feel good. If he really loves you eventually he'll realize the mistake he made and how much you are worth then he will ask you to get back. If he doesn't that just means he wasn't meant for you and there's a guy out there who is. Whenever you find that man, he will love you unconditionally and you will be glad you didn't stick to the jerk who is making you suffer now. Remember if a guy makes you cry or sad then he isn't worth crying or being sad over. Believe me, I know it's not easy, I recently broke up with my first love and know exactly how you feel. Devastated and emotionally tortured (at least that's how I feel) but I have to figure out what's best for me and think on the future. The man you are going to marry should make you happy for the rest of your life and treats you right otherwise your life will be hell. I think why it's so hard for me because I was a firm believer in saving myself for marriage. Once I met this guy I thought well since I'm going to marry him one day (that's what he let dream and would tell me) I figured it would be ok to have sex because he would be my only one. The feelings really suck and I feel so trashy. But hang in there don't contact him anymore as hard as it may be. I'm trying to go out and meet new guys, it works great to take your mind off the situation and the jerk!
| Thu, 09-30-2004 - 2:32pm |
sometimes after we break up with a guy we still feel like we owe them some sort of loyalty...we don't .. many of these guys have already moved on or plan to with someone else before we even know it.. you don't have to jump into another relationship with someone except with yourself... get to know and love yourself before moving on...you will be better able to see the signs and to be able to weed out the bad seeds...don't compromise on your needs ...not even for your ex
| Thu, 09-30-2004 - 10:46pm |
(((Hugs)))) Sweetie, I know you are devastated by this whole break up and you really want him back....but there really aren't any tips or tricks to get him to change his mind and come back. He made his decsion and there really isn't anything you can do to change that....it's something he'll have to change on his own or it won't happen anyway. I wish you the best and we're here if you need us!! Good luck!!

