today is his b-day! help!
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today is his b-day! help!
| Mon, 07-10-2006 - 10:01am |
I've been doing so well with the nc! I haven't called in a week (and haven't talked to him since the middle of June). But today is his birthday and I sooooo want to call. I feel like I've made so much progress, but sitting here today- I know that's all I'm going to think about and that's all I'll want to do!

I faced this problem 2 weeks ago. It was my guy's birthday, and I was SO tempted to email him a quick Happy Birthday email. What can it hurt right? ALOT. I did not email him, thanks to our CL Sandra. I emailed her, and she QUICKLY told me not to. If you call him and he doesn't answer the phone, how are you gonna feel? Or, if you call and he DOES answer, but sounds fine, how are you gonna feel?
I know this is hard, believe me. I fought it with everything I had to not email him, and I am SO glad that I did not email him. Big Hugs...
Shelly/20 for only 4 more days/TX