Today really sucks.....

iVillage Member
Registered: 10-22-2007
Today really sucks.....
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Tue, 11-13-2007 - 12:06pm
Today is not a good day. I have nothing positive or inspirational to say. I feel sad, just pure, simple, overwhelming sadness, and I can’t seem to shake it. I look at my list of all the things I didn’t like about the relationship, and the words seem empty and meaningless. I think about all the positive changes that have occurred with me since we broke up 16 days ago, but right now it doesn’t seem worth it. Nothing seems comforting. Hell, even my ‘high needs’ cat Max can’t stand all the petting and brushing. All I do is cry, and I don’t know how to stop. This really sucks…..
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Registered: 06-14-2006
Tue, 11-13-2007 - 12:14pm

Last night, I was just like you. I was feeling so sad. I sat there trying to study but couldn't. All I did was sit there and think about him and the breakup.


iVillage Member
Registered: 02-05-2007
Tue, 11-13-2007 - 12:25pm

Hi Lisa,


You've been so inspirational to others lately, you are entitled to a 'bad' day.

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Registered: 10-22-2007
Tue, 11-13-2007 - 6:36pm

Thanks for the compliments Carrie, I really needed them today. After school I went to the store to do some grocery shopping. As I was walking back home, one of the other teachers that my ex became friends with pulled up beside me on his snowmobile (we have about 6 inches of snow up here). We were talking and I suggested that he give Neil (my ex) a call because I assumed that he was all bummed out about breaking up.

iVillage Member
Registered: 02-05-2007
Tue, 11-13-2007 - 6:43pm

Hi Lisa,


Guys handle break-ups differently than we women do. For them going out is a distraction. For us, we have to think of distractions. LOL

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Registered: 09-28-2007
Tue, 11-13-2007 - 7:52pm

:*( i'm so sorry. just remember that you're not alone.


it will get better. i keep telling myself that too.


and cats are... cats. mine rejects my affection about 5 times out of 10, nuthin personal ;)

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