tommorrow is moving day

iVillage Member
Registered: 01-17-2007
tommorrow is moving day
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Sat, 01-20-2007 - 11:49am
Tommorrow i move everything out of his house.I'm not looking forward to it .I know it is neccessary.One of my friends called last night,HE contacted her to see how i am doing.What a loser? Oh yeah like what is she supposed to say ,i'm doing great? Just lovely since he broke my heart? She said she couldn't really talk ,so he is to call her today.I'm just curious to see what he has to say...I mean hello,we are in our late 30's not teenagers,If he needs to know how i'm doing ,why not call me?But then again this is the "man" who broke up with me over the phone after I called HIM,to see what the hell was going on.Gawd this all just sux,sux sux.Please tell me it gets easier,I'm losing it.Thanks for reading this.
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Registered: 06-08-2006
Sat, 01-20-2007 - 11:58am

It does get easier with time. Right now you just have to take one thing at a time, put one foot in front of the other so to speak. When you move to your new place, make it completely your own. Try not to put up pictures and things that will remind you of him. I know this can be hard because 2.5 years out of my relationship I am still finding clothing and pictures that I am still getting rid of. I'm so sorry you are going through this, but I promise it does get better with time. Keep posting here and let us help you through it.

hugs,
YG

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Registered: 01-17-2007
Sat, 01-20-2007 - 12:47pm
Thanks to all of you for your support.I've never been on a message board before & this has been a life saver for me .Please keep posting & i'll keep on reading...this is the hardest thing i have ever been through...