Too Close for Comfort - help!
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Too Close for Comfort - help!
| Mon, 11-15-2004 - 7:33pm |
My boyfriend and I ended things about a month ago. It was mutual, and agreed the break up was best for both of us. I still love him and wish things would have turned out different, but the biggest problem I have right now, is the fact that he is still in my "circle" of friends. When we first met, I introduced him to my friends, and now he won't leave! He has become very close with my best friend's husband, and is over at their house every day. It makes me very uncomfortable, because I would like to spend time with my friend, however every time I call, he is always there. My best friend suggests I still go to visit, however I am still very sad and would be uncomfortable seeing him. I don't know what to do. I feel like he should be the one to leave our circle, however I guess that's immature to expect that.
How should I approach this situation??
Please help...I want to visit my friend!
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| Mon, 11-15-2004 - 8:31pm |
I can only imagine how annoying it must be for him to be hanging out with your friends....but they're his friends to now and I think it would be unfair for you to ask him to quit being friends with them because it makes you uncomfortable. Could your friend come over to your house or meet you elsewhere?? You could try to make a schedule or compromise with your ex but I think if you did that.....you'd probably come off as childish and petty. Good luck no matter what you decide and keep us posted!!

