Tough one...

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Registered: 11-19-2007
Tough one...
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Thu, 03-20-2008 - 1:36pm
Having a rough day today...just knowing that the girl I thought I would be proposing to right about now is out there introducing someone else as her boyfriend while I sit here in singledom.
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Registered: 12-27-2007
In reply to: rossjack
Thu, 03-20-2008 - 3:02pm

I'm sorry you're having a tough day.

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Registered: 03-03-2008
In reply to: rossjack
Thu, 03-20-2008 - 4:12pm

Katherine,

Thanks for the reminder about spring and its connection to new beginnings. That was something I needed to hear today too. Have a wonderful first day of spring. :)



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I can't go back to yesterday--because I was a different person then. --L. Carroll


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Registered: 02-04-2008
In reply to: rossjack
Thu, 03-20-2008 - 5:35pm

I'm sorry rossjack. i've been going through the same thing but i've been really tough on myself lately so i'm actually feeling alot better cuz now i know i'm not holding on to any hope so i know i'm moving on without any false hope for my ex and i in the future. i know its tough. i would say its probably one of the hardest things for us to have to deal with when we're trying to get over someone but maybe thats what we need. perhaps we should see our exes find someone else so that we can let go. i know thats what i needed even though when i found out i was practically on the floor bawling my eyes out because it hit me hard, "he's not coming back". but that next day i told myself, its not worth crying over him, especially now. if he's going to parade around town with his new girlfriend and not give one thought about me then i'm not going to be giving one thought about him cuz he doesn't need that from me anymore. i needed that brutal push.


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iVillage Member
Registered: 11-19-2007
In reply to: rossjack
Thu, 03-20-2008 - 6:53pm

Yeah, I did the same thing.

iVillage Member
Registered: 08-22-2003
In reply to: rossjack
Thu, 03-20-2008 - 7:21pm

one thing that has really helped me in the past is to bring the other's relationship down to earth.

iVillage Member
Registered: 11-19-2007
In reply to: rossjack
Fri, 03-21-2008 - 12:58pm
Thanks, some days I am loving being single but other days I just want to move forward with my life.
iVillage Member
Registered: 08-22-2003
In reply to: rossjack
Fri, 03-21-2008 - 2:31pm

fantastic :) give us an update afterwards !!!

iVillage Member
Registered: 11-19-2007
In reply to: rossjack
Sat, 03-22-2008 - 4:12am

Well, my quasi-date bailed on me, so that was cool.

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Registered: 08-22-2003
In reply to: rossjack
Sat, 03-22-2008 - 9:28am
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