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trouble with ending sex
| Mon, 11-08-2004 - 3:15am |
I want to separate from my husband (for reasons I described in another post), but he's just so attractive (physically and in other ways). I just always want him. I told him the other day that I wanted to separate. It was really sad and emotional and painful. But I finally convinced him that I was serious and that I wanted to separate. But then today I just couldn't take it and we slept together. The sad thing is, he didn't even initiate it. It was all me. Now I feel so bad. I know I'm giving him all kinds of mixed messages. I told him over and over that I really do want to separate and that he should just ignore my sexual advances. He says he understands, but does he? How could he? If I'm saying "I want a divorce" and then "do me" two hours later, how can he take me seriously? Ugh, this sucks. I'm so weak.
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| Tue, 11-09-2004 - 11:48pm |
Maybe you can try writing down all the reasons that you want a divorce and every time that you start wanting him.....read your list....read it over and over again. I'd also consider finding somewhere else to stay in the meantime so you don't have to fight temptaiton so much. Good luck and keep us posted!!

