Trying to break up with bf of 9 years...
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| Sun, 08-08-2004 - 4:35pm |
I am trying to break up with my bf of 9 years and it is not easy! Most of the problems we have can be generally fixed, but I'm just not in love with him anymore. I'm not sure if I ever was.. we started dating when I was pretty young (19) and I was sort of just pushed along.. We now own a house and have two dogs together.. How quickly things become even more complicated, huh?
I feel like such a jerk, and I know he loves me very much and wants to spend the rest of his life with me. We are not engaged.
I started counseling a few weeks ago and the counselor is real good.. I think he will help me to close the door in a better way..
Have any of you ever been in a situation such as this? What did you do, and were you happy with the results?
Thanks for your input.. I am really hoping to hear from others who have experience what I am going through.
