Trying to get closure

iVillage Member
Registered: 09-30-2007
Trying to get closure
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Mon, 10-08-2007 - 11:19am

Writing on a message board is alien to me. I’m the one giving advice to others. And in my middle years it’s the 1st time I’ve fallen in love and experienced a break up. I’ve never wanted or looked for a relationship. My story.

iVillage Member
Registered: 02-05-2007
Mon, 10-08-2007 - 1:56pm

Welcome to the board babble2007,


Unfortunately, I think what you experienced was kind of the norm for Long Distance and/or Foreign Country relationships.... here's why (some based on recent personal experience).

iVillage Member
Registered: 09-30-2007
Mon, 10-08-2007 - 4:41pm

Thank you for your reply cl-itwinflame. You are right in all that you say. I just had to write my little story to try to get things straight in my head. And at the end of the day as I said in my note, it really is only time that can help and learn to accept. And I have happy memories when the time comes for me to accept and be OK with the memories.


Thank you.

iVillage Member
Registered: 02-05-2007
Mon, 10-08-2007 - 5:03pm
Writing is a great tool.