ugent advice needed

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Registered: 08-29-2004
ugent advice needed
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Sat, 03-10-2007 - 3:48am
ok so how do i start this with out going on and on. ok to make a long story short a month ago i caught my bf (of a yr, with whom i live with) talking to this mystery girl on his cell phone....ever since then its been kind of downhill..he has been acting strange...and picking fights with me, for instance he knows how bad i want kids some day, and he kept saying to me..well there is going to be huge issues cuz i never want kids, and i finally just got irritated with him and said well iam not worrying about that right now, to try and push it off...and then he said...well things arent the same, i do feel the same, i dont think of you as a girlfriend...just a buddy. like talk about huge punch in the gut..so i did what i guess i should have done and packed my stuff. i asked him, are you sure this is what you want ,u want me to leave? and he was just like "do what you want?" so taking that as the hint i just left...
he called me on my cell and wanted to know where i was going, and that more then likely he will change his mind about things...like WHAT the (#*)(#* is that all about? do i just give him his space or do i make a clean cut? please help this just happened tonight, iam devestated...i had to move hom with my parents and we had a dog together that i couldnt bring with me. please someone help
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Registered: 03-04-2007
Sat, 03-10-2007 - 12:54pm

give him his space and make him miss you, is what i would say.

its soooooo incredibly hard but i would say, don't talk to him until he figures his stuff out. and if he wants you back, and you want him back, just tell him you want to talk everything out. it's all about communication, and tell him you don't appreciate the way you've been treated lately.

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Registered: 02-05-2007
Sat, 03-10-2007 - 5:14pm

Hi kathryn and welcome to the board.