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Unbelievable!!!
| Sun, 04-23-2006 - 4:42pm |
So, I posted on Friday how the ex called pleading to get back together. He asked to see me this weekend & we made plans to see each other yesterday. He called yesterday morning & everything was still normal....He had to go pick a friend up at the airport, then said he would call in a few hours to give me an exact time of when he would be over (it is a 3hr drive). Well, he never called!!! Here I was worrying since last night thta he got in an accident or something bad happened. I checked his myspace page to see if he was on to see if he was alive because he never returned my phonecall either. Well, he was on myspace today so he is alive.... This just confirms even more that he's got some mental issues. He he was pouring his heart out to me not even 24hrs earlier (see post below) and now this. He makes me sick to my stomach & I am so angry that he put my heart through the ringer like this. I am so pained & I just hope I can pull through it & trust again....

what a freakin' a*hole! trust again, but never trust him.
I'm sorry...but that's such typical c'phobe behavior...come close, run away.
Learning to recognize the warning signs should help you with being able to trust again.
Sheri
you know what most guys are like that...if they are with friends they will actually forget about you...well actually what happen here he broke up with you and after three weeks HE ask you back and ofcourse you love him give him another chance...BUT THE BIGGEST MISTAKE THAT I THINK YOU DID IS YOU DIDNT LET HIM LEARN HIS LESSON....SO NOW I'M SSUMING HIS A BIG JERK AND HE THINK THAT WHATEVER HE'LL DO TO YOU YOU STILL THERE FOR HIM ANYWAYSS.
WELL THIS IS ALL UP TO YOU....ONE THING I COULD SAY IF HE MEANT TO SAY HIS WORDS TO YOU THAT DAY THAT HIS ASKING YOU BACK...HE WONT DO THIS TO YOU AT ALL.
ATLEAST HE CALLS YOU AND TELL YOU THAT HIS RUNNING LATE OR HIS NOT COMING TO YOUR PLACE COZ SOMETHING COME UP....JUST A LITTLE RESPECT TO YOU...YOU KNOW WHAT I MEAN!!
LIKE YOU MENTION NOT EVEN 24HRS SEEN HE WAS ASKING YOU BACK AND HERE YOU GO AGAIN...WELL LET ME ASK YOU SOMETHING AND ANSWER THIS TO YOUR SELF HONESTLY....IS THIS KINDA RELATIONSHIP THAT YOU REALLY WANT?
GOOD LUCK
He was telling you he's messed up...so while it's hurtful that he pulled a disappearing act, it's not all that surprising...because he's messed up! He's just being who he is...and until he gets some help for his issues, all he'll ever be able to do is talk about how messed up he is but not DO anything about it.
Sheri
guys are like that they say what they want but didnt mean to say it....they say all sweet things to us over and ever again....just to fool us!!!
so if ever he calls again i think its better to ignore it!! make him suffer like you did. i know you love this guy so i'm not saying that dont go back with him..right now let him learn his lesson..just remember if he really meant his words to you. no matter what you do to him he will still there for you. GOOD LUCK
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