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Unexpected Response
| Thu, 04-12-2007 - 2:01pm |
I was at an early morning work event today & quite a few guys hit on me. Instead of making me feel good, I had to sneak out to cry in the bathroom & dry heave.
One would think that I would feel good about this - that I'm still attractive & charming or whatever. But instead I felt horrible.
Because the one guy I wanted to appreciate me probably was just waking up 3.5 miles north of where I was.
Anyone else have this sort of unexpected reaction?

Hi,
I've never had that experience, but I would think it's common especially if you veiw it from the point-of-view of 'why can't the guy I want it to be, be this way with me'.
I have...Been broken up for almost 2 months now and I still can't go to a bar and be flirty, or feel flattered or happy that I am getting attention from guys, because I know it's not real (meaning from looks or amount of alcohol rather than who I am as a person) as well as it's not who I want it to be. I think it just means that we are not ready to make that step yet, that we are still vonerable and are still aching and just protecting our hearts.
chin up! You are not alone!