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Unhappy about break up
| Fri, 03-02-2007 - 12:16am |
Okay this might seem very strange to most people. My boyfriend and I broke up last week, but we're still the very best of friends. We hang out everyday, and talk on the phone constantly. We started going out about seven months ago and things just went at rocket speed from there. We started dating very shortly after he left his wife (who I've also somewhat known for almost five years), and about two months later i got pregnant. I lost the baby 12 weeks later, I have generalized anxiety disorder so needless to say it's been a rather up and down 7 months. He and his wife have agreed to try working on things, but he says that he's not going to try as hard as he did with us, and that no matter what he and I are always going to come first. I've known him for years and we were good friends before we ever started dating. It's just very hard knowing that even though he wants to be with me, he needs to "finish" things with her so that he can move on. He never really finished things, in that they never signed the divorce papers. I truly believe that he will be back, and I told him that I was going to keep my fingers crossed that it doesn't work. Pathetic I know, but I just want him back. Did I mention he's my first boyfriend? That's right, it goes from sad to pathetic. Any advice on how i can occupy my time to distract myself?

shygrl2003...
Pianoguy knows he has responded to this post before...so at the risk of repetition, PG is going to try and 'get through to you' ONE MORE TIME???
If a man has the desire to reunite with a former spouse or serious girlfriend...YOU will ALWAYS be THE OTHER WOMAN! And yes...you'll make yourself available to "wipe his nose, ease his frustrations, and give him SEX!"
But is "playing 2nd fiddle" to a man who wants to reunite with an EX really going to make you happy?
I know of very few people who like the idea of coming in at second place!
While I realize this man is your first TRUE boyfriend...please don't mistake his interest in you for TRUE LOVE! I honestly don't buy into that concept...at least from what you've written here!
Pianoguy