Unwanted pregnancy...headed for break-up

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Registered: 02-03-2008
Unwanted pregnancy...headed for break-up
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Sun, 02-17-2008 - 8:37pm

Talk about BAD timing.

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Registered: 02-05-2007
Mon, 02-18-2008 - 1:26pm

Hi,


My advice, leave now, especially if this is an example of the kind of support he's giving - "...he throws insulting remarks in my direction almost everyday."


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Registered: 02-15-2008
Mon, 02-18-2008 - 2:11pm

There's a part of me that wants him to take joint responsibility as well!!! It's the sane part! He is equally part of this pregnancy as you, you wouldn't be in this situation without him, so regardless of what he wants, you do whatever you think is for the best in your life. Maybe seek professional advice from someone if you are really not sure what path to take for the best (i.e terminating the pregnancy or having a baby)
It's not an easy decision to make, especially if you have a tricky relationship to begin with and someone who isn't particularly supportive. I would rely on every outside source you can, family, friends, colleagues. Don't be ashamed of the situation you're in or what you might do.

There's no easy way out of this one but you can turn it around whatever you decide to do