update - 2 months later

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Registered: 01-05-2004
update - 2 months later
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Thu, 09-15-2005 - 8:04pm

Hello everyone,

Just wanted to update you. To refresh the memory: 2 months ago my now EX and I, after dating for 8 months decided to take a break for 3 weeks and see how we feel about each other. So, the next day he started dating someone else - now just dating, but serious stuff... talking about the future with this girl, seeming to be very happy, even inviting her to move with him, if he needs to relocate for a job... I couldn't understand how it was possible... So, now 2 months later:

from what I know - their relationship is going down - he lost interest in her, he is trying to date multiple women at the same time and his ex-girlfriends (not me :))) for which I am very flattered). what a mess...

I am so glad I am out of here. Obviously, it still hurts inside, otherwise I wouldn't even think of it, but I am glad it all ended... and I feel so much healthier now.

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Registered: 03-26-2003
Fri, 09-16-2005 - 7:25pm
Glad to hear that you can see you are better off. It was so cowardly of him to ask to take a break, when what he really wanted was to break it off altogether.