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iVillage Member
Registered: 07-17-2007
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Wed, 10-10-2007 - 10:00am

Good morning everyone, hope everyone is doing good.

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iVillage Member
Registered: 02-05-2007
In reply to: blondegreen
Wed, 10-10-2007 - 12:23pm

Hi blondegreen,


Congrats to you on your progress.

iVillage Member
Registered: 07-17-2007
In reply to: blondegreen
Mon, 10-15-2007 - 10:34am
I feel like Im slipping backwards!
iVillage Member
Registered: 09-30-2006
In reply to: blondegreen
Mon, 10-15-2007 - 10:41am

i'm having the same problem. it's getting more difficult.


i loved this line you wrote:


:We should be happy that we've discovered these flaws that were making us unhappy before making a life long commitment.:


today i thought in the elevator, no matter how much i miss him, he disrespected me and i deserve better. i just have to keep telling myself that over and over.

 

iVillage Member
Registered: 07-17-2007
In reply to: blondegreen
Mon, 10-15-2007 - 10:56am
Agree, I go over how unhappy I was over and over again, reminding myself that he just wasnt meeting my needs and it wouldnt change, at least not now.
iVillage Member
Registered: 03-08-2007
In reply to: blondegreen
Mon, 10-15-2007 - 12:16pm

I am having the same problem as well.


I know she and I are not good together, but I miss her so much.

iVillage Member
Registered: 02-05-2007
In reply to: blondegreen
Mon, 10-15-2007 - 12:23pm

It's normal to have a bad day now and then.

iVillage Member
Registered: 07-17-2007
In reply to: blondegreen
Mon, 10-15-2007 - 12:55pm
Rob, you hang in there too!
iVillage Member
Registered: 07-17-2007
In reply to: blondegreen
Mon, 10-15-2007 - 12:58pm
Great idea Carrie.
iVillage Member
Registered: 09-30-2006
In reply to: blondegreen
Mon, 10-15-2007 - 1:00pm

similar story to mine exactly. claiming he didn't have time when he had plenty for his friends. me missing him while i was dating him b/c he just didn't want to see me as often as i wanted to see him.


i totally identify with this part of your experience.


my prob was i didn't give him enough time to miss me. i've always contacted him since i met him every few days. he said he missed me once. i should have left more time for him to miss me...oh well, trying to create that space now.


i would assume he misses you too but probably is enjoying the bachelor life again. when he gets tired of that, he'll miss you even more. you might not know it, just don't feel like he's forgotten you...


not that that helps, but oh well...


 

iVillage Member
Registered: 07-17-2007
In reply to: blondegreen
Mon, 10-15-2007 - 1:17pm

MY x was totally afraid to commit.

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