same thing with my ex, not wanting to spend enough time with me. i dunno, whassup with these guys & their part time r-ships? he told me when we broke up he couldn't give me the time i wanted. which was what, saturday nights?
i keep thinking that's an excuse but i do know he took all of his obligations to his friends & family v. seriously.
Hey there, I'm on vacation visiting my family so just saw your post...this is why I was concerned about the two of you moving to be friends so quickly.
I've been reading your postings, and your situation is similar to mine. When Neil and I first lived together, he spent all of his time fixing up a truck that he bought. All I wanted was more time with him, and I explained that that was the reason why I was 'crabby' at times. We 'broke up' on Sunday - he told me that he didn't love me, didn't want to be with me, and didn't want to keep living with me. But since then, he hasn't made any effort to move out, and he's been making an effort to help out more around the house. It seems like we're getting along better, but I don't think we're back together as boyfriend and girlfriend. So I guess that my situation is just as confusing as the next, but it helps to read about how others are going through and handling the same thing. Thanks.
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Slow down girl, the up/down is TOTALLY normal.
blonde,
same thing with my ex, not wanting to spend enough time with me. i dunno, whassup with these guys & their part time r-ships? he told me when we broke up he couldn't give me the time i wanted. which was what, saturday nights?
i keep thinking that's an excuse but i do know he took all of his obligations to his friends & family v. seriously.
whatever.
i'm very up & down too. hang in there...
Hey there, I'm on vacation visiting my family so just saw your post...this is why I was concerned about the two of you moving to be friends so quickly.
Right, I know that's what you thought--I'm just sayin', it's time to re-think that for the time being ;-).
Well got through another weekend without the X. Im doing ok but sometimes I find myself thinking about this man and wishing things were different.
Morning everyone, my Wednesday update to my Tues nite bowling where I see the XBF!
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