Update to bad situation

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Registered: 09-28-2007
Update to bad situation
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Tue, 10-16-2007 - 3:52pm

Hi, big news. CLs, I'm not sure how to link this to

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Registered: 09-30-2006
Tue, 10-16-2007 - 7:40pm

showtime, sorry to hear your story. :(


from my experience - don't try to make sense of anything he said. it's all meaningless words because he just is going to say anything that comes into his mind to try to justify leaving you.


that is some of the biggest bull* i've heard a guy say when breaking up. all about me now? come on. he has just created an impossible situation so there is nothing you can say or do about it.


he sounds like a mean guy...sorry.


 

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Registered: 09-28-2007
Tue, 10-16-2007 - 7:43pm

yeah, thanks for reading. the preceding events are under the post "excruciating" and "it's not over, is it??" (i didn't now how to link those)


it is bull. i completely agree. this wasn't the person i fell in love with, i can tell you that much.


i just gotta move on. (... but i really do want to know whether i should believe him when he said they weren't together while me and him were...)

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Tue, 10-16-2007 - 7:54pm

assume they weren't & believe the best about him. from my painful experience with my last 2 exes & moving on...it's really better to feel love in your heart & just let them go rather than try to find out the truth.


sometimes the truth hurts. sometimes it doesn't. but you don't know which in this case...& what will finding out the truth do to you?


i felt so much happier feeling loving feelings toward my ex than anger. well, that's the one i wasn't sure about. the one i knew cheated on me, i didn't feel any love but then that was fine. it's been a year since him & i'm completely over it.


 

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Registered: 09-28-2007
Tue, 10-16-2007 - 8:02pm

at this point, i just feel compelled to know the truth. that will make me feel more.. secure, in control? i don't know how to explain it, but part of what got us in this mess was too many grey areas in the past. i need certainties. i don't want to have to guess or assume.


i am not feeling the love now.


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Registered: 09-28-2007
Tue, 10-16-2007 - 11:04pm
someone, please talk to me :*(********
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Tue, 10-16-2007 - 11:36pm

LOL - I was going to be funny and say blah, blah, blah, but I figure that's not the kind of talking you mean.....


Get busy, what ever that means to you and start doing things.





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Registered: 09-28-2007
Tue, 10-16-2007 - 11:38pm
i'm at work :( don't have much sick time available :(
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Wed, 10-17-2007 - 12:19am

Being busy at work is being busy too.


Can you watch YouTube or a tv show online that you missed this week or last?





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Registered: 09-28-2007
Wed, 10-17-2007 - 12:31am
the boss is here, so nope. i can't concentrate.
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Wed, 10-17-2007 - 12:58am

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