update on "on a break advice"

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Registered: 05-21-2007
update on "on a break advice"
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Mon, 03-03-2008 - 1:28am

okay so my ex has been calling me on average 17 times a dya...sometimes 3 or 4 sometimes 30...harassing me saying he hates me he needs me he wants me to be sad and alone forever he loves me...really confusing stuff.

i feel like i shudnt but i am starting to kinda like this new guy in my life, hes a sweetheart andknwos the situation with my ex and is being really understanding about everything and trying to make me feel better
because of this tho i kinda dont wanna get back together with my ex at all..even tho hes being CRAZY and threatening to show up at my dorm all the time i know its cuz he just misses me and wants to be back together with me...and is taking it harder now that ive moved on

what should i do?

"you never leave the one you love for the one you like cuz the one you like will leave you for the one you love"

^^ but what if the one you love is being an a5shole and you fall out of love with them slightly, even tho you sitll care about them

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Registered: 03-01-2008
Mon, 03-03-2008 - 3:45am

Hunny, do you really need an answer to this dilemma? You already know the answer, you practically answered it yourself.


First off, you ex is being abusive!!!!! You DO NOT have to put up with this, at all. Report him to your college or something but don't let him get away with it. Don't mistake his obsessive calling, threats