update.... he's a jerk!

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Registered: 04-04-2003
update.... he's a jerk!
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Wed, 08-17-2005 - 11:33pm

Well I was just about to email my bf who broke up with me less than a week ago and say I'd be willing to be friends and hope we could keep in contact, since he said he really wanted that and thought it could maybe turn into more someday.

I got bored before sending it though, and went to Match.com to see if there were any guys I could even see myself dating. Shockingly, I see my ex's pic up there! It hasn't even been a week, and his whole reasoning for ending things was because he is emotionally incapable of having a relationship. So why the trolling for dates online? The thing is, we MET on Match.com (but both of us took our profiles down right after we started dating), so he had to know I'd find it eventually!

UNBELIEVABLE!

I put my profile back to active status. He'll know, that I know. What a liar!!!!!!

iVillage Member
Registered: 07-18-2005
Thu, 08-18-2005 - 2:39pm

Yep he is.. me and my ex met online also..
He broke up with me a week before my birthday this just happened a few weeks
ago... yes he is horrible.. but get this he's been sending emails little inspirational stuff with one of them where we both already received it and the other one today..
I just didn't respond and then I noticed he had me on the list twice at work and at home..
He's an idiot... I told him last week to come get his stuff from my house asap - please.
He hasn't come yet... I have nothing to say to him... and won't....
By the way, after we met I took my ad down his was up during,but he claimed he didn't respond to anyone and its still up now... what an ahole... Yes he hurt me truly..
but now I have piece of mind... he will never get close to me again mentally or physically.. I love myself more than that and deserve more than he's willing to give.

Keep your head up grrl...
Scar :)