UPDATE: I NEED YOUR ADVICE RE THIS MAN!!
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| Sat, 03-17-2007 - 4:34pm |
ADVICE PLEASE: UPDATE TO I REALLY NEED YOUR ADVICE REGARDING THIS MAN!!!!
To anyone who has read my story, his common-law partner DOES NOT know about me as we only went out once; and that was before I found out that she was living in his house. The house is in his name and the phone is in her name. When we did call each other it was at work and he also called me on my cell phone.
Also, he still wanted me to go out in public with him; but I AM the one who would not go out with him while she was living in his home. I am definitely not his SIDE ACTION as WE NEVER SLEPT TOGETHER.
This man and I work in the same building, and even after he told me we should stop seeing each other FOR NOW; we have already spoken a couple of times where he told me he loves me.
And just yesterday (March 16, 2007) when I got off the elevator after work, he was in the lobby area waiting to see me. I started to head for the door as I was not going to bother with him, and he just looked at me as if to say "WHAT ARE YOU DOING?". He couldn't believe that I was going to leave without talking to him. He wanted to find out how I was doing as he was concerned about me. I told him that I don't know what to expect from him anymore. He told me just last weekend that I shouldn't wait for him, we should let things cool down for now, and no more phone calls. He told me that he only said those things as I was stressed out dealing with everything regarding him and my family, and that it was best for me. He said he only meant that we shouldn't spend time together in the Food Court, but he still wants me to call him when I want; and that he still loves me and to remember what he wrote in the letters and the cards, which included poems that he wrote himself.
It was like he was scared not having any contact with me at all. He basicly took back what he said to me on the weekend about us not seeing each other at all and no phone calls.
I told him that I did alot of thinking over the past few days, and it is best that we don't see each other the way we used to. He told me not to do too much thinking (I guess he is afraid that I am going to give up on him altogether.) Regardless of his situation with her, she is still living in his home, and we both deserve better than just seeing each other in the workplace and talking by phone. I told him that. When I was leaving, I told him that I will talk to him soon; and he said "I HOPE SO."
I have a feeling that even though I have toughened up the past week regarding him, he is going to be the one to do his best to keep in touch and find ways to see me.
Now, isn't that a change in his attitude from just last weekend!!!!
What is your opinion now?
ALMOZA

Hi tigress,
Here's your previous post :
I REALLY NEED YOUR ADVICE RE: THIS MAN!!
My opinion is pretty much the same.