Update on recent breakup...
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| Mon, 05-28-2007 - 1:03pm |
I'm sure no one here remember me. I had come here back ion March after my husband of 5 years and 13 years relationship decided he was leaving and wanted a divorce.
Let's say that we have been working really hard on ourselfs and together for the last few weeks. I took a mojor introspective of what I have done to this relationship and what I wanted more than ever. He did the same. We both came to the conclusion that communication was our biggest problem. By communication I mean really talking to each other; telling each other how we feel and the other person listning..really listning to what we have to say. If we could work on that together, then there was a chance for us after all. Of course there were thousands of little things too.
Since then we have been working really hard on us. We both agreed that we should rebuild our relationship, but build a whole new refreshing one. One that we are both building together at our own pace. It's funny to say we are working hard since it doesn't feel that way at all.
We are currently taking it one day at a time, we do talk about the future too but not as much. For the first time since our honeymoon, we are taking a holiday together. We are planning on cocooning, realxing and to continue laughing and talking as much as we have in the last few weeks.
So it's all looking pretty bright for us right now.

I'm REALLY happy for you!
I believe communication was the biggest problem in my 8 year relationship, and I wanted to get help to work on it...the difference is, he didn't. So it sounds like you have a great guy there. Good luck with everything!