Update - We Talked
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| Tue, 05-10-2005 - 11:10am |
So we sat down and talked for about an hour an half last night. There were only slight tears, no anger, just calm talking. This is amazing for us as we ususally end up in a heated arguments when we try to talk things out. I think we have learned how to deal with one another. He goes silent when I push him so I am learning to sit in silence until he says something. We talked a lot about how each of us has changed and that is we want to survive together our relationship needs to change with us. We then approached the reason for our fight on Saturday and that didn't go well. It was late and we were getting no where so he left. Not in anger but just in lets discuss this another day.
Ahhh I just got off the phone with him. He is so completely irrational. I mentioned last night that one of my problems was that I moved in with a girl friend about two years ago and when I did that I was planning on moving in with him afterwards. Well I have been looking for a place on my own and getting frustrated about the price and size of places. Anyway he calls to tell me that in three months we are going to move in together. He told me to start looking for a place. What the &%#&@(??? There are huge reasons that I don't want to live with him now. It was an unrealistic plan to live together after I lived with my girl friend. This is going to cause more problems between us because I am going to have to tell him why I don't want to live with him and it is going to piss him off if I didn't do that already. Number One Reason I do not financially trust him. His job is not secure at all and it is seasonal. The winter times he is always broke. Ahhhh. I also still want my freedom. How could we go from break up to moving in together? This just doesn't make sense to me.
| Tue, 05-10-2005 - 8:01pm |
