wait around or run away?
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wait around or run away?
| Wed, 09-05-2007 - 11:29pm |
Everything was great until my boyfriends life got turned upside down by some unfortunate events. After that he decided to separate himself from everything, including me. Whether we broke up or not is still unclear to me and he wont actually admit it to me. He goes several days without talking to me and then calls as if nothing is wrong. So anyways, he talks about how eventually he will get his life straightened out and we can start our lives together again and how he just doesn't have the time to call me but he wants to. I feel as if he wants me to wait for him but i'm tired of waiting on guys to get things sorted out whether its with me or his life. So i'm not sure if I should start running the opposite direction or wait around to see if anything comes of this. I just know i'm not happy and I want more from my life than to sit and wait for the unknown. Even if he did get everything straight, i'm not sure I want someone who will just ditch me when it gets hard (like most guys i've encountered do). One of the reasons I dont want to give up yet is because I loved the way he treated me and how we got along together. Although, i'm not sure that outweighs everything else.

Welcome to the board beautifulwonderwall,
Only you know how long you are willing to wait around.... you are seeing first hand how he deals with stress in his life, that is to exclude you.
"i'm not sure I want someone who will just ditch me when it gets hard"
I think that says it all....